sisterhood..

I long for sisterhood & friendships. I find myself scared to cultivate relationships with women due to rejection, judgement, and betrayal. I long for the day when women can complement one another instead of compete. I want to take girl's trips and have girl's night out. I want to surround myself with positive and confident women.

I truly believe that, it is an insecurity within yourself that makes you tear down another woman. Where did women develop the concept that you have to be a nasty mean girls in order to succeed in life. Some women are too scared, too selfish, or too insecure to help other women.

Imagine what the world would be like if everyone loved themselves enough so much that they weren't threatened by other people's talent's, possessions, or their general tendency to just be whoever the heck they are! For once I want people to realize its none of your business what other people are doing. If us as women would just realize we need each other’s love and support to survive in this world.

Not every woman will be your best friend, but every woman is deserving of your respect and support. I get it she may not be your cup of tea, but why tear her down. You never know how bad you may hurt someone. Maybe she is at the breaking point and a compliment would have changed her whole day around. Be the person that brightens up somebody's day, not pushes her over the edge!

I long for the day when us as women come together and become friends, sister and mentors. We cry, laugh, sing, dance and create life long connections. The possibility of what we can do when we open our hearts and souls. Women coming together, it's a powerful thing!